Since 2008, I’ve been a Facebook user. Admittedly, I lean more towards the “social media stalker” category than an active participant, yet I’ve amassed 348 Facebook “friends”. Occasionally, I’ll share a post or comment, but mostly I use it to keep tabs on old friends, especially those who aren’t nearby, and to follow updates from my favorite sports teams and other interests.

Continuing our series on Core Values, this final post delves into the essence of Friendship. It’s inherent that friendship is a cornerstone of a fulfilling life. Without close relationships, life can feel desolate and hollow.

But what truly constitutes friendship, particularly in the age of social media? Has the digital landscape blurred the lines? Is simply clicking a “like” or “love” button on a post enough to qualify as friendship? While such gestures may signify care and interest, there’s a risk they dilute the depth of true friendship.

Let’s revisit the fundamental elements of genuine friendship:

• Honest Feedback: True friends can be candid and truthful with each other, offering constructive criticism and receiving it without offense.
• Fun: Genuine friendships thrive on shared experiences and laughter, finding joy in each other’s company.
• Support: Friends stand by each other during tough times, ready to make sacrifices of time, money, or sleep to lend a helping hand.
• Loyalty: Loyalty is the bedrock of true friendship; friends remain steadfast through thick and thin.
• Confidence: True friends share their hopes, dreams, and disappointments, trusting that their vulnerabilities won’t be exploited outside the relationship.

While social media provides a convenient platform for staying connected, it’s vital not to let it overshadow the essence of true friendship. Genuine companionship transcends virtual interactions, grounded in trust, support, loyalty, and shared experiences. So, let’s nurture our friendships beyond the digital realm, fostering meaningful connections that enrich our lives.